saha refuge is a place of safety for women and children fleeing or at risk of domestic abuse and honour based violence. The service provides safe, temporary, emergency accommodation for a maximum of 6 months.

Experienced trained staff support women to gain and maintain the skills and confidence necessary to rebuild their lives and move on independently. The service has a dedicated children’s service. Staff liaise with other, external agencies if needed to enhance support.

Women/families often arrive in just the clothes they are wearing. They have to leave jobs, schools, family and friends behind them so that they are safe. We buy clothing store & supermarket gift cards out of donations when we can, to give to families when they arrive.

What is domestic abuse?

Domestic abuse is an incident or pattern of incidents of controlling, coercive, threatening and violent behaviour which can take the form of psychological, emotional, financial, sexual, harassment & stalking and online or digital abuse. It can take some or all of these forms and the list is not exhaustive.

Commonly asked question:

Why doesn’t she just leave? – the answer is not straightforward. The victim has most likely endured years of abuse, and her confidence and self-esteem have been eroded over time. The victim will be afraid of the consequences – the perpetrator may have threatened to kill her/the children and/or other family members, how will she/he will survive financially? They may feel that staying is better for the child/children, and – where will they go?

If you would like to support the work that is being done in the refuge services you can donate using the donate button below using ref: SE0770.

 

*All names on this page have been changed to protect identities.

Domestic Abuse Statistics - Figures from ONS 2019

26

Women / Families supported by the saha refuge in the last year

over 2 women are killed

Each week, over 2 women are killed by partners or ex-partners in England and Wales

over 100 calls every hour

Police in England and Wales receive over 100 calls relating to domestic abuse incidents every hour

Less than half

Less than half of all incidents are reported to the police

1 in 3

Approximately 1 in 3 women and 1 in 6 men will experience some form of domestic abuse in their lifetime

62%

In the year ending March 2016, 62% of children in households where domestic abuse was happening were also harmed

Support services

National Domestic Violence Helpline number – 0808 2000 247

Karma Nirvana – Supporting victims of honour based abuse and forced marriage.

Refuge

Women’s Aid

Domestic Abuse – Getting help during Coronavirus

NCVDA free, fast emergency injunction service to survivors of domestic abuse and violence regardless of their financial circumstances, race, gender or sexual orientation.

Advice for keeping safe:

Keep money/keys in a safe place

Keep a list of emergency numbers: police, relatives, friends, national helpline numbers

Keep copies of important documents i.e. passports, birth certificates, benefit letters (if applicable) bank statements etc.,

Plan a safe escape route

Report any injuries to your GP so that there is a record

Keep a record of all incidents (dates, times) and copies of abusive text messages/emails etc.,

(We realise some or all of the above may not be possible, depending on the level of abuse you are experiencing).

 

*Sharon was a resident in a refuge service and wrote a letter to new residents on her experience:

Dear new resident

When I arrived in an area I had never visited before and came to a new building I was nervous, anxious and stressed.

The staff were so kind, warm and welcoming that, within a fairly short period of time i realised that i was safe and secure here. I grew in confidence and saw a light at the end of a very dark tunnel.

The staff guided me as i tried to come to terms with emotions and gave me professional advice regarding, finance, always being friendly and ‘there for me’. At a later stage they helped me find alternative accommodation.

I am now confident and secure in my own flat, I am indeed a very different person to the woman who got lost on her first trip to explore the shopping area locally, while being stressed and shaky and having to phone the staff to come fetch me.

I do hope you too, will find security, safety, comfort and experience the beginning of a happier life to come as i did!

If I could make that change at my age (83 when I came to the service – anyone can!

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